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Dressup Game

Posted by Casi Mendoza at 05:38 PM on March 14, 2009 Comments comments (0)


Visit i-Dressup for more games!

Live Action Avatar

Posted by Casi Mendoza at 10:39 AM on February 01, 2009 Comments comments (0)

It sucks and Jesse McCartney is in it...

All the characters are white...not Asian...


Stupid Hollywood

The New Blackberry Flip is just wrong...

Posted by Casi Mendoza at 10:37 AM on February 01, 2009 Comments comments (0)

enough said....i just don't like what it looks like

I Love Japan! Fave Inventions

Posted by Casi Mendoza at 07:14 PM on January 16, 2009 Comments comments (0)

During my three years of Junior High, I was obsessed with the country. Now...a year later as a freshman in high school, the obsession has come back!


I loved anime, manga, the language, J-Pop...

This year...i wrote an Original Comedy about Japan for my Forensics Team...


Here are my favorite inventions from the land of the rising sun.


First off...I'm too lazy to actually show the pictures, so just google it all for more information and videos and pictures...


1.Endamame

This is amazing. It's these little "endless soybean things." No, it's not food and it's not messy. But have you ever popped a soybean? It's actually a lot of fun! This is a little key chain toy where you simulate the action of popping a soybean. Though of course, you gotta make it more fun. This little baby pops up with a kawaii little face and adorable little sound effect.

 It's cute, simple, fun and addicting and in my opinion, it captures the essence of pointless and random entertainment.


2.Electronic Cigarettes

 No, it's not a real cigarette and as for as I know (I just saw this at CES) it's not bad for you either. Think of it as a lifelike alternative.

 All you do is breath in through one end like a real cigarette and the other end uncannily lights up for effect and realism. Next, blow...and smoke actually comes out of your mouth!

 For people trying to quit smoking, you can put in a nicotine flavor to sooth your cravings. You can also put in other flavors like strawberry or cherry.


3.Sushi Shaped USB Flash Drives

 Sushi and Technology. Two great things from Japan!

 I just love this little flash drive because it's so cute and lifelike. It's unique and fun, just like everything else from Japan.


4.Portable Office Tie with Walet Compartments

 On the front, it's an innocent normal tie. But when you turn it around it has pockets for you wallet, pens and any other piece of junk you would put in your pocket or walet. This is so innovative and practical. It's perfect for the office or if you just want to look cool at the mall.


5.Sauce Dispensing Chopsticks

 For those too lazy to actually just dip sushi in Soy Sauce...

 These Chopsticks, with a little squeeze, will not only pick up food, but dispense a little soy sauce too.

 It's about 18$ for two pairs, and it's also cheaper to buy these chopsticks than to buy a bottle of soy sauce. Hurray for saving money! And if you're not totally sold on this idea, just think of the 1.5 seconds you save not having to dip your sushi into the little bowls you put soy sauce in.


Well...There you have it! To be honest, I had a lot more stuff to put in, but I have a life and I don't want to waste yours any more than i already have.

For more information, just google the things you find interesting and go from there.


For more sites on this and more...


http://www.techeblog.com/index.php/tech-gadget/top-10-strangest-japanese-gadgets-and-accessories


http://www.cutiegadget.com/edamame-popping-game-new-color/


http://minicigarette.net/


http://www.gizmine.com/

 

The "Pop Culture Phenomenons" That I Just Hate.

Posted by Casi Mendoza at 06:21 PM on December 23, 2008 Comments comments (0)

The things i hate...


1.Disney Channel (and that includes...Miley/Hannah, JoBros, HSM)


2.Twilight (Yes, I read the book and personally, I didn't like it. It's just over hyped and shallow.)


3.American Idol (I think it's ok...but I never get into it.)


Ok, so you've notice I listed a lot of popular things. Here's why I hate it...


Disney Channel

 Nothing is ever "normal." I mean, come on...A Wizard Family, A Double Life Pop Star, Twins that live on a hotel/cruise ship...There just has to be some sort of "Twist." The whole concept of normalcy has been completely abandoned. The new ideas and plots are so overrated.

 Each story seems to be the same. I know it's a sitcom, but seriously...they seem to have the same episode guidelines all the time. Cheating on a test, keeping a secret, telling your best friend that secret, doing something to your parents, getting out of getting grounded...No matter what, it's always the same.

 Even though Disney Channel is for kids, they seem to emphasize "Dating." What would kids need to know about dating?

 Disney is SHALLOW.  From emphasizing the importance of "Appearance" and choosing actors whose beauty makes us feel insignificant, Disney makes kids and teens feel inferior. Yes, Disney Channel is not the only Network that does this, in fact, everyone does this, but the fact that Disney is for mainly for kids makes everything worse. At young ages, children are learning that appearances will get you everything. This will only start a chain reaction to their high school or middle school lives, where kids and teens will be even more pressured to start cliches and base their friendships and relationships mainly on appearance.

 

Twilight


 In my opinion, twilight is overwritten, over thought and overrated. It's a book for the mind of the teenage girl written in the style of a teenage girl. It's popularity is strictly based on the naive romance and "plot twists." I can compare it's suspense to a crappy fantasy based soap opera trying to live up to J.R.R Tolken, J.K Rowling, and C.S Lewis (in fact, I don't know why Stephanie Mayer didn't choose to name herself just S. Mayer.)

 Bella is a plain, boring teenage girl obsessed with a boy she hasn't known for more than a month. Edward Cullen, said boy, is an attractive, rich and highly coveted high school boy...who just happens to be a vampire. Wow, you didn't see that coming, but then again, was that really necessary? A Vampire? Really, how unoriginal could you get. But, back to Bella. The entire story is written in her thoughts, and her thoughts are as naive and pointless as the thoughts of any other high school girl. This is a major reason I hated the book.

 Of course, every cloud has it's silver lining, right? In the book, I fell in love, not with Edward, but with the other Cullens and Hales. Alice is now and forever one of my favorite story book characters. Her spunk and energy made the endless gloom and high school superfluous naivety actually bright and bearable.  Other than that, the sub stories or history of the Cullens were very interesting. Carlisle had a very engrossing life, and it actually made Twilight interesting.

  As for the rest of the series, I hated the first book, so in my opinion, why read the rest? I've heard it all from the squeals of my peers anyways.


American Idol


 Now you must be wondering how anyone could dislike this pop culture phenomenon.  Well it's true, I don't watch it and I just don't like it. I can understand how people find the little "talent search" entertaining (I can admit watching the first rounds are humorous and easy to make fun of) I just don't get the extra excitement and hype. It's old and nothing seemed to have changed.

I Miss My Blog

Posted by Casi Mendoza at 10:41 AM on December 21, 2008 Comments comments (0)

Wowie Zowie!

Boy has it been a while....anyways, I can't believe how much I've missed.


Happy Holidays to everyone.

And before i forget, sorry for missing Thanksgiving and Halloween (I was a witch!)


Ha Ha Ha...Seriously though, I've just been addicticted to Facebook.

Oh yeah, school has something to do with my disappearance too...

You could say that's where my life has been...yes, i know...i have no life...


But anyways sorry for missing out on the whole Freewebs---> Webs Experience.

I promise my readers more in the future...


In other news...


I'm on my school's Forensics Team!

For those who just don't know what i mean...


It's not CSI...It's SPEECH.


I'm doing Humorous Interpretation (and took home 3rd place twice)

and i've also started Original Comedy!


Go me, right....yes i know...i have no life...and i'm a nerd

The Girl Code: The Most Important Written Laws in History

Posted by Casi Mendoza at 07:06 PM on November 23, 2008 Comments comments (0)
Definition (http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=girl%20code)

1. girl code

a set of useless, bullshit rules that girls use to govern and bully around their friends, girls or guys.
examples of breaking the girl code:
1. you slept with a guy a friend used to like
2. you ask a guy out that you once saw an aquaintance out with a month before
3. you are friends with someone your friend hates
Girl 1: "what did i do wrong?"
Girl 2: "hello!? you fucking broke the girl code rule #27."
Girl 3: "oh, duh, i checked out a guy that you once that was cute. i am so sorry."

2. Girl Code

The code of guidelines that are girls most obey in order not to get kicked out of the community.
There are many opinions if the Girl Code actually exists, as well as the Guy Code.
1) If you change boyfriends so fast they rarely achieve name status, a man must be around for at least six weeks before you make your friends bother to learn his first name. Until such time, he should be referred to as "The boy" or "That guy".

2) All girls must have a "Mr.Right Now". This is the guy friend who is always ready and available to hang out with you, and may or may not like you as more than a friend. He is always ready to party till dawn, and do things you wish you didn't remember in the morning. He's not ?Mr. Right,? but he may be good enough to be ?Mr. Right Now.?

3) If you just met a guy and know absolutley nothing about him, but need to refer to him during 'girl talk' you use one example of who he is, something he has, or what he does, and he becomes... that guy.
(Ex. "The Camaro guy", "The Trainer dude", "The Four a.m. in the Taxi Guy")

4) Every girl must wait at least a day and a half before calling a guy whose number she has retreived.

5) You are never in any case to date a friends ex or a guy who she was really into.
Exception: If he's one of those guys who every girl likes.

6) You are to never diss a friends boyfriend except to agree lightly or nod when she says he's being a asshole. In most cases it is easier to nod.
Exception: If a guy cheated or dumped your friend is is exceptional for you to claim he isn't good enough, and that she deserves better as well as reminding her that he was an asshole anyway.

7) If you wan't to date a friend brother it is required that you get said friends permission.

8) No girl is to ever hang out with the boyfriend of a friend without the friend present. If permission to is granted their should be at least 3 other people with you.

9) No girl may have more than one 'Love of her Life' at one time, though having a boyfriend and a 'Love of her Life' is fine.

10) No girl shall wear the same outfit or perfume as a friend is they will knowingly be in the same place.

11) No girl shall purchase a distinctive item of clothing which she is aware her friend owns without express permission from the friend.

12) No girl shall borrow an item of clothing without asking the clothing owner's permission, unless both parties have made an official decision to waive this rule in the context of their friendship.

13) An eye for an eye and a foot for a foot. If a friend borrows an item of clothing and destroys it, said friend must re-pay it.

14) The penalty for exposing a secret to an unauthorized party shall be exile from Girlville.

15) A girl who can substantially claim that she was not aware that a piece of information was a secret at the time she exposed it shall not be subject to punishment.

16) Inside jokes are not to be explained to outsiders.

17) Always leave a man wanting more but don't leave him guessing too long since guys do not take hints easily.

18) If a guy your friend is into asks for your number, you are to deny it and walk away, and/or slip him your friends number while saying, "I think she is more your type, you should call her".

19) Chicks before Dicks. Simple.

20) In a case where a friend spreads a horrible rumor about a friend, and than apologizes they are to be given the cold-shoulder for at least 3 days.

21) In a fight between a friend and her boyfriend you must always choose your friends side.

22) When dating a girl should find equal and/or enough time to still hang out with her girls.

23) Never insult your friend but never let your friend leave the house looking hideous. Find a better way to tell your friend how they look.
Ex: 'I think your other jeans are nice', 'You should wear less eyeliner, you have great eyes'.

24) When a friend is drunk, never allow her to dial, drive or leave with a random guy.

25) When a friend calls you up complaining about how she is drunk and can't go home you must allow her to stay at your house, without letting your parentals (if you live with them) find out.

26) When out with the ladies, if Girl #1 points out a guy that she is interested in, Girl #2 should avoid making a bee-line over to him to get his number for herself. Show some respect.

27) When said evening is described as a "Girls? Night Out" that means it is for GIRLS ONLY. Consider it payback for all those tree houses and snow forts we couldn?t enter as children. Do not invite your boyfriend.

28) Stop being the "Me too!" girl If your friend is telling a story, stop stealing her thunder ? and her story ? by constantly trying to one-up her. For example:
GIRL 1: I had a horrible day. My flat iron broke in the middle of straightening, I dropped my brand new bottle of Burberry Touch on the bathroom floor, I missed the bus by two seconds and was late for school, my teacher yelled at me for something Sally did, and I got into a fight with Jason over whose family we?re spending Thanksgiving with.
GIRL 2: Oh that?s horrible. The same thing happened to me today, only I stepped in gum on the subway platform too. And when I went to scrape it off, I tripped and ripped my stockings and it reminded me of the time I was at my ex-boyfriend?s place for Christmas...

29) Be a responsible friend and not a 'Yes-Girl'. If a friend is asking you if she should get back together with her ex who chated on her, never wanted to hang out with her and than blamed her for them breaking up, and you say 'Yes', than you're a bad friend. Friends are supposed to protect and help friends. SO say your part even if they don't like what you have to say.

30) Don't be a hater. If a girl walks in looking gorgeous, girls automatically try to find something bad about her. But who knows? She could have just lose a friend, or got dumped, etc. So be nice and stop hating.

31) Don't go against the Girl Code

Speaking in Code
(an excerpt from The Girl Code: The Secret Language of Single Women (On Dating, Sex, Shopping, and Honor Among Girlfriends) by Diane Farr
http://www.enotalone.com/article/3994.html)



1

Speaking in Code

You know those little disclaimers on the sides of cigarettes and alcohol? Well, if your next date came with a warning label, it would contain the following information down the side of his leg. This is the common language of girlfriends who've been there.

Titles

?We don't see
things as they are,
we see them as we are.? - Ana?s Nin

THE BOY
If you change suitors so fast that they rarely achieve name status, a man must be around for at least six weeks before you make your friends bother to learn his first name. Until such time, he should be referred to by this generic title.

For Women Who:
Need to explain to numerous people what's going on in their love life,

Are between the ages of sixteen and twenty-one or over twenty-seven,

Have overbearing mothers and aunts in their life, Have called off more than one engagement.

As a Modifier: ?It's been two months now; I think the boy has reached name status: His name is Dick, and I'm pretty sure he isn't one.?

MR. RIGHT NOW
This is the guy friend of yours who doesn't have a real job, and is always ready and available when you want to party till dawn, and do things you wish you didn't remember in the morning. He's not ?Mr. Right,? but he may be good enough to be ?Mr. Right Now.?

When to Retire Him:
Immediately after college,

When you're not so afraid of a real man,

When he asks you for cab fare home,

After a particularly lonely holiday season.

As an Excuse: ?It's not that I'm afraid of a committed relationship; at the moment all I need is to find a new keg and to pull Mr. Right Now out from underneath the empty one.?

THE [fill in the blank] GUY
When you've just met a man and know little to nothing about him but you need to identify him during girl talk, so you use one example of who he is, something he has, or what he does, and he becomes... that guy.

Best Types of References:
The kind of car he drives (The Camaro Guy),

His occupation (The Personal Trainer Guy),

Where you met him (The Four a.m. in the Taxi Guy),

The way in which he behaved in the morning if you've already woken up with him (The Cuddle Guy,

The Bad Breath Guy, The Up and Run Guy, etc.).

As an Object: ?He's the guy that slipped the ma?tre d' twenty dollars for the table, spoke to the waitress like a human, and never had to use his napkin through all of dinner-you know, the Good Manners Guy.?

THE TAKE-HOME PROJECT
When you feel like ignoring some larger issues in your own life, so you invest in a fixer-upper guy-who will cost you nothing but time, money, energy, and happiness. Inevitably, you learn that someone else has recouped his resale value.

Hello! You Will Never:
Fix him to your liking,

Change anything but the window dressing,

Turn him into the guy who got away,

Build the bionic man (...Farrah tried and she couldn't do it, even with all that hair).

As a Reminder: ?Forget him, he can't even dress himself and you don't have the patience for a take-home project.?

A BENEFACTOR
This is a polite title for that 35-45-year-old man who dates 19-25-year-old women. Having one always seems so original (and economical) at first, because he takes you to many more exciting places than guys your own age do and, of course, he pays for everything. (But don't think you invented this: In the old days they just called him a Sugar Daddy.)

Things to Look Out for:
A wife,

Some kids,

The fact that you're a grown man's Barbie doll,

That anyone who can hang out with someone who's fifteen years younger than him is a loser.

As a Reprimand: ?No, he's not my father... he's my benefactor; and who cares if he's bald, he pays!?

P.D.A. BOY
The guy you go out in public with and agree to hold hands with, kiss, hug, sit on the same side of the booth with, or show any other Public Display of Affection, before determining boyfriend status.

Usually Causing:
Your friends to abuse you,

Your feelings for him to escalate unrealistically,

One person to suspect the other likes him or her too much too soon,

An inappropriate use of the boyfriend title or ?I love you? phrase.

As an Error: ?So there's me and P.D.A. boy making out in the pizza place, and in walks my boss: Kill me now.?

A WELCOME MAT
This is what your friends call you when you keep taking back the guy who only comes a-knockin' on your door for one thing: sex, drugs, or rock 'n' roll. (We could have just called you a doormat, but you're always so damn friendly when he shows up.)

When Did You Decide:
To act like AstroTurf?

That he's so much better than you are?

That you didn't need therapy anymore?

That the girl who tortured you in grammar school was right?

As a Wake-Up Call: ?Yeah, I'm sure he meant to call you, because everyone wants to check in on a welcome mat after they tread on it.?

LUGGAGE
After you or your man has told the other to get lost and you keep finding each other at events of mutual interest. If you tossed him, he's the luggage, and what's required is a game of ditch. If he tossed you, then you're the luggage, and this is a game of looking as though you're having a good time without him.

Necessary Requirements: At least one ally to help you ditch or save face,

A mineral water because alcohol will kill you here,

A good seat for viewing or hiding,

A ladies' room to escape to if the game gets too intense.

As a Plea to God: ?I must have 'Samsonite Customer Service' stamped right on my forehead, because I cannot lose this luggage for the life of me.?

When Women Break Girl Code

What girl HASN'T heard of this code? It's an unwritten - but often spoken of - code of ethics that every girl is bound by. Some of the rules are really dumb...here's an example: Your best friend is not on speaking terms with someone she were once very close to. A huge blow out recently ended their friendship. You, being her best friend and only the acquaintance of the second party, are also somehow obliged to no longer speak to this second party as well. As if by default, YOU are also not on speaking terms with the jerk who did nothing to you. It's dumb, but we do it to protect the feelings of the people we care about.

Some of the rules are really useful. For example, you and your friends go out to a party. They give you your space when a cute guy comes up to dance with you. When they spot a creeper coming up behind you or see you being trapped in a corner by a disgusting, piss-drunk guy who doesn't understand that his pick up lines are not working... they get you out of the situation ASAP. It can be something as simple as a hand gesture or something as blatant as grabbing your arm and yanking you onto the dance floor. Girl Code. And of course, if there are only two of you, you are NOT to ditch the other girl for a guy on your girls' night...unless she agrees that this guy is a mega catch, and insists that you do. Girl Code.

Other important code points to keep in mind...

* Even if you really like the new dress your friend bought at Macy's last week, you will NOT go buy the same one a few days later
* On a double date gone wrong, you accompany each other to the bathroom so you can plan your escape
* You never, under any circumstances, get involved with someone your friend had previously dated/hooked up with/gotten involved with in any way.
* If your friend calls you at four in the morning crying and heartbroken, you get your ass out of bed, put on your slippers, and go comfort her. And you hate the asshole that did it to her, of course.

Now here's where the girl code gets fuzzy for me. The line. Where do you draw the line between loyalty and just plain stupid? More importantly, WHO are you supposed to be loyal to? The code is meant to apply to all females, period. The whole point is that we women get screwed enough by the opposite gender. The last thing we need is to watch our back from other bitches too. So we make this code and secretly hope that everyone follows it, knowing damn well that they won't. But there are still people we expect to. Like our friends. But where does it end? Best friends? Party friends? Acquaintances? Girls you know of, but don't talk to?

I'm the last person to understand girl code. I think I've broken it a couple of times because I didn't understand its parameters. Example: I once hurt a girl who has always hated me. I didn't feel an obligation to her at the time, because she had never liked me, and probably never would have no matter what I did. I didn't see the wrong in it. After a few years had passed I started to get it. It doesn't matter if she didn't like me. It's still girl code. It's about compassion for the people like you. People who you have more in common with than you think. People who never want to be hurt, just like you.

Here's why I ask. I grew up with a girl. From the age of seven, we were attached at the hip. I lived at her house half the time, and she lived at mine the other half - we were practically sisters. We were the best of friends for a long time, and only started drifting apart halfway through high school. That's a solid ten years of inseparability.

Even after we drifted apart, when we ran into each other, we still had a place for one another in our hearts. I still felt I could say or do anything with her. I still kept in touch with her casually through my first year of college, and I am still greeted by bear hugs and kisses from her family. I was their unofficially adopted daughter...what do you expect?

I haven't seen or talked to her in about a year. People go their separate ways; it happens. I'm indifferent. But I still consider her one of the most important people in my life. The memories, the time, the experiences, the lessons learned...it is all so valuable. And I still feel like if she called me up tomorrow and asked me to do something for her, I would do it.

That being said, I just found out that she's dating my ex boyfriend - the guy I dated for two and a half years, while she and I were still good friends. (Note: This is just a rumor for now, but it stemmed from my ex's parents, so I feel there's some truth to it.) Now don't get me wrong. We've been broken up for a while, and I don't care if he sees other girls. I am happy with the most amazing guy I've ever met, who I've been with for close to three years now. And when I have heard of Ex's women in the past, it hasn't bothered me.

But I have to say, when I heard this, I was truly shocked. At first I just thought it was really odd, and it made me laugh. But when I got to thinking about it...I felt a little bit hurt that someone I felt so close to, despite our lack of contact recently, would consider it okay to date someone who once broke my heart.

That's what I need someone to tell me. Is she violating girl code? Or does it not apply to her because I have not spoken to her in over a year?

Poetry

Posted by Casi Mendoza at 07:05 PM on November 23, 2008 Comments comments (0)
Emily Dickinson (1830?86).  Complete Poems.  1924.

Part Three: Love

XXXIX

WHEN roses cease to bloom, dear,    
  And violets are done,    
When bumble-bees in solemn flight    
  Have passed beyond the sun,    
 
The hand that paused to gather            5
  Upon this summer?s day    
Will idle lie, in Auburn,?    
  Then take my flower, pray!

Why oh why...why me!

Posted by Casi Mendoza at 08:34 PM on November 07, 2008 Comments comments (0)
stupid cupid
red and pink
with bow and arrow
and cruel games
playing with
emotions dear
playing and
corrupting minds

is that too dark or depressing?
to me it sounds like one of those songs written by girl power guys suck girl bands...

anyways...
my message

cupid is cruel

and i am so stressed...

tomorro i have a speech team meet/tournament
and i am sooooooooo stressed and nervous!!!!1

tomorro is also my mom's b-day.


Gen-We!!!

Posted by Casi Mendoza at 07:42 PM on October 26, 2008 Comments comments (0)

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